Soul Counselling — Couples Sessions
Counselling for the two of you — and the dynamic between you.
Christina Feyes is a trained counsellor and psychologist who works with couples online across Australia. The work is clinical, intuitive, and impartial — built around what’s actually happening between you, not just what each of you is bringing in.
Book a free 15-minute assessment →If you’re both here, you might be…
- Having the same argument on repeat — and never quite finishing it.
- More like polite flatmates than partners. The closeness has quietly left the room.
- Trying to recover from something specific — a breach of trust, a long crisis, a difficult phase.
- Navigating a transition together — children, illness, a parent’s death, retirement — and the relationship is straining under it.
- One of you ready to do this work, the other not quite there yet. (That’s normal. Read on.)
How Christina works with couples
Clinical, intuitive, and impartial.
Most couples who find Christina have tried other forms of therapy first — and the relationship is still stuck. The difference here is depth and time. Sessions are 90 minutes or longer, the work goes to the actual root, and Christina sees the pattern between you that neither of you can see from the inside. For some couples even a single longer session moves something that years of weekly couples therapy didn’t.
Clinical foundation
A trained counsellor and psychologist, working with couples for many years. Real frameworks, real safety, no guesswork.
Intuitive insight
Sees the dynamic between you — the loop, the trigger, the unfinished thing — that neither of you can quite name on your own.
Impartial & safe
No sides. No judgement. Both of you fully heard. The pace stays gentle, even when the work goes deep.
The journey
The stages.
Every couple’s path is different, and the order isn’t always tidy. But most couples recognise themselves somewhere in this arc — including the stage where one of you does some of the work on your own. Each stage is paired with a real review from Christina’s wall.
You both know something has to change.
It’s rarely one big thing. It’s the small loops — the same argument, the slow distance, the conversation neither of you can have. Reaching out together is often the hardest part of the whole journey, and for many couples just deciding to come in already shifts something.
“Christina’s genuine care has helped in guiding me to understand the underlying issues which have kept me stuck in my life.”— Georgia
You arrive with two versions of the story.
Most couples do. Christina doesn’t take sides. She listens to both of you — to what’s said and to what’s underneath — and works with the dynamic between you, not against either of you. Most couples leave the first session feeling more on the same team than they have in months.
“After multiple individual sessions and a few couple’s sessions with my fiancé, I’m thoroughly impressed with Christina’s intuitive abilities. Her unique approach has been transformative for both of us.”— Serg
The things you couldn’t see from inside the relationship.
Patterns surface — sometimes ones that have been running for years, sometimes ones that started long before this relationship. Christina names the dynamic gently, without blame. The work isn’t comfortable; it’s also rarely as hard as you’d feared.
“I knew how hard it was going to be to go through uncomfortable conversations about my own habits and actions — but it’s worth the shadow work as you come out of it knowing what you have to do and you feel much lighter.”— Serg
Sometimes one of you needs to go on your own.
Not every couples journey is just couples sessions. Sometimes a one-on-one session before the first couple session sets the foundation — clearing the static one of you is carrying in. Sometimes between couple sessions, one of you needs space to process individually before the next one lands. Sometimes the most useful work happens after — one partner doing their own deeper piece, and the relationship moves anyway.
Christina builds the rhythm with you. There’s no rigid program. The mix is whatever the two of you (and sometimes just one of you) actually need.
“The session created real change for me. I felt the shifts straight away, and interestingly my partner — who was not in the session — also experienced an energetic shift later that day.”— Kharja
Something quietly changes.
Conversations land differently. The thing that used to trigger an argument doesn’t anymore. You find each other again — not the version of you from when you first met, but a more honest one, with the loops named and most of the static gone.
“The insights we gained about our relationship dynamics have strengthened our bond and improved our communication substantially.”— Serg
You’re back to actually enjoying each other.
Date nights without an undercurrent. Family time without tension. A version of the relationship that doesn’t require constant maintenance — because the foundation has shifted, not just the surface. You leave with tools and clarity that stay with you.
“I respond differently to feelings of hopelessness and deal with conflict in my relationships a lot better now too. It’s an amazing feeling to look back and see how far I’ve come.”— Anna
What couples work through with Christina
Common reasons couples reach out.
Not an exhaustive list — just the most common entry points. Whatever you bring, the approach is the same.
Communication & repeated conflict
Break the loop. Name the trigger underneath. Have the conversation you haven’t been able to have.
Disconnection & distance
From flatmates back to partners. Find each other again — honestly, not just performatively.
Recovering trust
After a breach, a betrayal, or a long crisis. Gentle, never rushed, never re-traumatising.
Navigating a transition
Children, illness, a parent’s death, retirement. The work life puts on a relationship — held together.
Start here
A free 15-minute counselling assessment.
A no-pressure call so you can meet Christina, ask anything, and decide whether the work feels right. It doesn’t have to be both of you on the call — often it’s just one partner who books in first, and that’s completely fine. No commitment. No pre-screening. Just a conversation.
About Christina
The counsellor behind Soul Counselling.
Christina Feyes is a counsellor and psychologist with many years of practice, working with individuals and couples online across Australia and internationally.
What makes her work different is the combination — clinical training and a natural intuitive ability used together. With couples, it lets her see the dynamic between you, not just the two stories. Both of you are heard. Neither of you is judged.
Clients describe her as calm, deeply empathetic, and rare in her ability to help them see what they couldn’t see on their own.
Common questions
Before you book.
If your question isn’t here, the free 15-minute assessment is the easiest way to ask it.
My partner isn’t sure about counselling. Can I book on my own first?
Yes — and most couples journeys actually start this way. One partner books the free 15-minute call (or a first one-on-one session) on their own, gets a feel for how Christina works, and the couple session happens later — or sometimes not at all, because the dynamic has already shifted from one partner doing their work. There’s no pressure on the other partner to commit before they’re ready.
Will you take sides?
No. Christina works with the dynamic between you, not for or against either of you. Both of you are heard. Both of you are seen. The pattern is named gently, and the goal is always the relationship — not winning the session.
Do we always have to come together?
No. Many couples journeys include one-on-one sessions for one or both partners — sometimes before the first couple session, sometimes between couple sessions, sometimes after. The rhythm is built around what you actually need. There’s no rigid program.
Can couples counselling work online?
Yes. All sessions are held via Telehealth (Zoom). Many couples actually prefer online — you can do the work from your own space, with no travel and no waiting room. The depth and care Christina brings is fully present on screen, and you can both sit together on one device or join from different rooms or even different cities.
I’ve tried couples therapy before and it didn’t help. Why would this be different?
This is the most common reason couples find Christina. Weekly 50-minute couples therapy often stays at the surface story — who did what, who said what — and rarely reaches the actual pattern underneath. The work here is longer (90+ minutes), goes to the root, and uses Christina’s intuitive sense of the dynamic between you. Many couples describe shifts they hadn’t been able to make in years of other therapy.
How many sessions will we need?
It varies. Some couples feel a real shift in the first session and use a few more to consolidate it. A focused piece of work is often 3–6 sessions, sometimes with one-on-one sessions woven in. Some couples come back periodically for tune-ups. There’s no minimum, no package, and you’re never locked in.
Ready when you both are.
Start with a free 15-minute counselling assessment — just one of you, both of you, however you want to do it. No commitment, just a conversation, so you can decide whether the work feels right.
Book your free 15-minute assessment →