Communication loops
The same argument, shutdown or defensiveness repeating.
Soul Counselling — Marriage Support
Marriage counselling for couples who want to understand the pattern, not just repeat the argument.
Christina Feyes works with couples and marriages online across Australia, supporting communication, disconnection, trust repair and the deeper emotional dynamic between you.
Book a free 15-minute assessment → Ask a question firstPrefer to talk first? Call 0479 144 561
If you are here, your marriage might be feeling like…
- The same argument keeps returning in different forms.
- You live together, but the emotional closeness has faded.
- One or both of you feel unseen, defensive or tired of trying.
- Trust has been damaged and you do not know how to rebuild it safely.
- You still care, but you cannot find your way back without support.
How Christina works
Clinical, intuitive and impartial marriage support.
Marriage counselling with Christina focuses on the dynamic between you. Both partners are heard, neither is blamed, and the deeper loop underneath the conflict is gently brought into view.
No sides
The relationship is the client. Both partners are heard without blame or scorekeeping.
Deeper pattern work
Sessions look beneath the argument to the wound, fear or unmet need driving it.
Flexible rhythm
Couple sessions can include one-on-one work where it genuinely supports the marriage.
The journey
From stuck in the loop to back on the same team.
Every marriage is different, but many couples recognise this arc when the work begins.
The loop
You know the pattern too well.
You can almost predict the next argument before it starts. Counselling begins by slowing the loop down enough to see what is really happening.
“Christina helped me understand the underlying issues which kept me stuck.”— Georgia
First session
Both stories get heard.
The first session creates a safer container for what has been difficult to say at home. The aim is not to win; it is to finally understand the dynamic.
“Her unique approach has been transformative for both of us.”— Serg
One partner can start with the free assessment first. It does not need to be perfect to begin.
Going deeper
The wound under the fight becomes clearer.
Most recurring arguments protect something more vulnerable: fear, grief, shame, resentment or loneliness. Naming that changes the conversation.
“It is worth the shadow work as you come out of it knowing what you have to do.”— Serg
Repair
Trust begins with different responses.
Repair is built in small, repeated moments: listening differently, responding differently, and staying present where you used to defend or withdraw.
“The insights we gained about our relationship dynamics have strengthened our bond.”— Serg
Reading about change is not the same as experiencing it. Start with a short, no-pressure call.
Together again
The relationship feels less like work and more like home.
The goal is not a perfect marriage. It is a more honest, responsive and connected one.
“I deal with conflict in my relationships a lot better now.”— Anna
What we can work through
Common marriage themes.
Marriage counselling can support the practical conflict and the deeper emotional pattern.
Emotional distance
Feeling more like housemates than partners.
Trust repair
Working carefully after betrayal, secrecy or emotional injury.
Life transitions
Parenting, illness, grief, retirement or stress changing the relationship.
Start here
A free 15-minute counselling assessment.
A no-pressure call so you can meet Christina, ask anything, and decide whether the work feels right. It does not have to be both partners on the call. No commitment. Just a conversation.
90+ minute sessionsOnline Australia-wide via ZoomNo referral needed
About Christina
The counsellor behind Soul Counselling.
Christina Feyes is a counsellor and psychologist with formal qualifications in psychology, social work and human services, and over a decade of experience supporting people through difficult life seasons.
Her work brings together clinical knowledge, grounded counselling practice and intuitive insight, so sessions can hold both the practical and the deeper emotional or spiritual layers of what you are experiencing.
Common questions
Before you book.
If your question is not here, the free 15-minute assessment is the easiest way to ask it.
Do I need a referral?
No. You can book directly. The free 15-minute assessment is a simple way to ask questions and decide whether the work feels right.
Are sessions online?
Yes. Sessions are available online across Australia via Zoom, so you can do the work from a private and familiar space.
What if I do not know where to start?
That is completely normal. You do not need a polished story. Christina will help you begin with what is most present and work gently from there.
How many sessions will I need?
It varies. Some people feel a meaningful shift quickly; others prefer a steadier process. There is no minimum package and no pressure to continue.
What is the easiest next step?
Book the free 15-minute assessment. It is no pressure, no commitment, and gives you a chance to meet Christina before deciding.
You can begin before everything is falling apart.
Start with a free assessment. One or both partners can attend the first call.
Book your free 15-minute assessment →Prefer to talk first? Call 0479 144 561