Childhood and complex trauma
Early experiences that taught you to stay guarded, self-reliant, or small, and still shape how safe you feel today.
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Soul Counselling · Trauma Support · Gold Coast
If an old wound, a sudden shock, or hurt inside a close relationship still lives in your body as tension, dread, or bracing, you are not broken. These are survival patterns your nervous system learned. Based on the Gold Coast, Christina offers gentle, paced trauma counselling in whichever setting your nervous system finds safest, face to face by appointment, depending on venue and availability, or online and by phone from your own space.
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Trauma counselling is careful, paced support for what the body still carries after overwhelming experiences. You choose where sessions with Christina Feyes happen, in person on the Gold Coast if a suitable venue and an open appointment can be found, or online and by phone anywhere in Australia, and they always move at a speed your nervous system can handle. It can help with single events and with the slower kind of trauma that builds over years, and it does not require retelling everything. A free 15-minute assessment is a low-pressure way to begin.
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A word of hope
Many people arrive wondering whether they will always feel this on edge.
Your body has been working hard to protect you, and that protection can learn to soften. Trauma counselling moves gently and always at your pace, and you stay in choice about what you share and when. Over time, many people find the alarm quietens and the past starts to feel like something that happened, rather than something still happening. You do not need to tell the whole story to begin.
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One conversation in, most clients say they’ve finally been understood.
“I truly felt heard for the first time in all my life and deeply understood.”
“When I came to Christina I was drowning in darkness… for the first time in a LONG time im finally thriving again.”
“Due to her mediumship I was able to see core issues that I wasn’t able to recognise before.”
Whether you settled here years ago or arrived on the Gold Coast to start again, what you carry is welcome here.
How Christina works
You will never be asked to force a disclosure or perform a breakthrough. There is no requirement to retell what happened in detail to be helped. Sessions are paced around your sense of safety, your consent, and what your system can genuinely process today.
You stay in choice throughout, deciding what to share, what to leave, and how slowly or gently we move.
We work with the nervous system as much as the story, so calm becomes something your body can feel, not just understand.
Over time we gently meet the pattern sitting underneath the survival responses, rather than only managing the surface.
Go deeper
If you like to understand something before you step towards it, our longer trauma article walks through why the nervous system braces long after danger has passed. It explains freeze, hypervigilance, and why gentle pacing matters. Reading it asks nothing of you and commits you to nothing.
Read the trauma counselling blogA quiet place to start, in your own time.
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What we can work through
Trauma can come from a single overwhelming event or from something painful that repeated over months or years.
Early experiences that taught you to stay guarded, self-reliant, or small, and still shape how safe you feel today.
Hurt inside close or intimate relationships that has left trust, closeness, and your own worth feeling fragile.
A sudden event, injury, medical scare, or bereavement that your body has not yet been able to settle from.
The accumulated weight carried by first responders, health, hospitality, and shift or fly-in fly-out workers over time.
Trauma support across the Gold Coast
The Gold Coast draws many people who came to start fresh or leave a painful chapter behind, yet the body can keep bracing long after the move is done. Living somewhere sunny and holiday-bright can add its own quiet pressure to appear fine, to keep up, to not let the ease of the place expose how heavy things still feel inside. First responders, nurses, hospitality crews, and fly-in fly-out workers often absorb strain shift after shift with little room to set it down. From Southport to Surfers Paradise, Broadbeach, Burleigh Heads, Palm Beach, Robina, Coomera, Nerang, and up into the Hinterland, that gap between the outside picture and the inner reality is more common than most people admit.
Some people carrying trauma feel safest in a quiet room with a steady person nearby, and others only settle with their own walls around them. Christina offers both, so you can sit with her face to face somewhere between the beaches and Tamborine Mountain once a fitting venue and time are sorted, or connect online or by phone from anywhere in Australia. You can also explore all Gold Coast counselling services.
Safe enough to do the work
For many people the hardest part of trauma work is trusting that they will not be pushed. On the Gold Coast, where life can move quickly and appearances matter, having one space that moves at your speed can change everything. Nothing here depends on you performing recovery.
Christina is a qualified counsellor offering trauma-aware, paced sessions in which you stay in control of what is shared and when. You can join online from wherever feels safe, whether that is your home in Robina, a quiet room in Burleigh, or a parked car between shifts, or sit down with Christina in person on the Gold Coast by arrangement, as venues and her calendar allow. If the setting you picked stops feeling right, you can switch. Nothing is pushed before you are ready.
Research suggests around 75 percent of Australians live through a traumatic event at some point, and roughly 11 percent will experience post-traumatic stress, though most people do not go on to develop a lasting disorder. In Queensland, the ABS 2020 to 2022 study found that 23.7 percent of people aged 16 to 85, close to 954,400 residents, experienced a mental health condition in the previous 12 months.
Sources: ABS National Study of Mental Health and Wellbeing, 2020 to 2022; AIHW.
About Christina
Christina Feyes founded Soul Counselling in 2012 and is a counsellor with training in psychology, social work, and human services, along with nearly 20 years of experience. She is based on the Gold Coast and works with clients right across Australia by video and phone. For trauma clients who feel steadier with another person physically present, she can also meet face to face anywhere from the coast to Tamborine Mountain, depending on where a suitable space is available and when she has openings.
Her approach brings together clinical knowledge, grounded and practical counselling, and intuitive insight. That means you can work with the everyday, workable steps and, when you are ready, the deeper layers underneath, all at a pace that stays comfortable for you.
Common questions
If your question is not here, the free 15-minute assessment is the easiest way to ask it.
You can start without spending anything. Christina offers a free 15-minute assessment with no card and no obligation, so you can get a feel for how she works and whether it suits you before deciding anything. There really is nothing to lose in that first conversation. It is simply a chance to be heard, ask questions, and sense whether this feels like the right kind of support for you right now.
No referral is needed. You are welcome to reach out directly and arrange your free 15-minute assessment whenever you feel ready. You do not need paperwork, a diagnosis, or anyone else’s permission to talk to someone. Some people come with a clear sense of what they want to work on, and others simply know that something feels heavy. Both are completely valid reasons to make contact.
Christina is genuinely based on the Gold Coast, so she knows this region well. Sessions can happen online by video, by phone, or in person on the Gold Coast. There is no fixed clinic room, so a face-to-face session is set up when a quiet, private venue and an open time both fall into place. In trauma work the setting itself matters, so you pick the one where your body feels least on guard, and you are free to change your mind later. That means you get someone who understands the local rhythm, while still being able to meet wherever you feel most comfortable, anywhere on the Coast or across Australia.
That is a very common place to begin, and it is completely fine. You do not need to arrive with a tidy explanation or a plan. Many people simply notice that something is not sitting right and want space to make sense of it. In your first conversation, Christina will follow your lead gently, without pressure, and together you can find a starting point that feels manageable rather than overwhelming.
No. There is no requirement to give a detailed account of what happened for the work to help you. Healing does not depend on reliving the event or narrating every painful part. You decide what you share and what you keep private, and sessions are paced around your safety. Much of the work can focus on how trauma shows up now, in your body and daily life, rather than on the story itself.
There is no set number, because every person and every history is different. Some people come for a short, focused period around a specific event, while others value ongoing support as they work through deeper or longer-standing patterns. There is no expectation to commit to anything long term. You are free to go at your own pace and to reassess as you go, keeping what is useful and letting the rest be.
Yes. Online sessions are held privately by secure video or phone, and many people find that being in their own safe space actually helps them settle and open up more easily. Working from home, or somewhere that already feels calm, can support the nervous system rather than working against it. For a great many people, gentle, paced trauma counselling delivered online is every bit as meaningful as sitting in a room together. And if your system tells you it would rather have someone physically there, an in-person session on the Gold Coast can be organised instead, venue and diary permitting, or you can move back to online whenever that feels safer.
Soul Counselling is not a crisis service and cannot provide emergency support. If you are in immediate danger, please call 000 rather than waiting for a booked session. Once you are safe, Christina’s counselling can be part of the gentler, ongoing support that follows.
You are welcome to begin with a free 15-minute assessment, with no card and no obligation, simply to sense whether Christina feels safe enough for a next step.
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